{"id":18605,"date":"2024-06-05T03:00:30","date_gmt":"2024-06-05T08:00:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/?p=18605"},"modified":"2024-05-31T14:50:13","modified_gmt":"2024-05-31T19:50:13","slug":"season-23-episode-4-the-heart-center-managing-our-relationship-with-connection-and-disconnection","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/2024\/06\/season-23-episode-4-the-heart-center-managing-our-relationship-with-connection-and-disconnection\/","title":{"rendered":"Season 23: Episode 4 | The Heart Center: Managing Our Relationship with Connection and Disconnection"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s time for the heart center numbers! Ruth and Erin will discuss the 2s, 3s, and 4s of this triad and their special relationship to connection and disconnection. Erin breaks down each of these numbers and how their instincts impact them. They talk about the challenges our broken and often violent world presents for those in this feelings-centered triad, as well as the unique ways the world needs their heart more than ever. Over on Patreon, Erin continues to share journal prompts for 2s, 3s, and 4s as well as guidance specific to the unique challenges for heart center folks as they work through those questions.<\/p>\n<p>This season we are using the framework of the enneagram, and in particular the ways the 3 instinctual subtypes impact each enneagram number, to help people do the necessary inner work of knowing themselves and managing anxiety, triggers, and stuck patterns so that they can lead others well. This season, we are moving beyond the basics of describing each number type to look at our instincts and what motivates our behaviors. Special guest Erin Baute, a leadership behavior strategist with over 20 years of experience in behavior change and professional development, joins us all season long to help us do this important work.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-18549 size-thumbnail\" src=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC00488-Edit-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"Erin Baute\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" srcset=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC00488-Edit-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC00488-Edit-700x700.jpg 700w, https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC00488-Edit-24x24.jpg 24w, https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC00488-Edit-48x48.jpg 48w, https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC00488-Edit-96x96.jpg 96w, https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/DSC00488-Edit-300x300.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>Erin Baute is a professional business coach and leadership behavior strategist with over 20 years of experience in behavior change and professional development, working with individuals and teams. She has a bachelor\u2019s degree in Human Development, a Master of Public Health and a PhD in Organizational Psychology, with a focus on personal and professional development using personality as a framework underway. She has been studying and using Enneagram for 14 years and is a Certified Enneagram Teacher and Trainer and an Accredited Enneagram Professional from the International Enneagram Association (IEA)<em>. <\/em>You can find more information about Erin on her website, <a href=\"https:\/\/livingtheenneagram.com\/\">https:\/\/livingtheenneagram.com\/<\/a>, or follow her on Instagram, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/livingtheenneagram\/\">@livingtheenneagram<\/a>!<\/p>\n<hr style=\"clear: both;\" \/>\n<p><a class=\"button\" href=\"https:\/\/itunes.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/strengthening-soul-your-leadership-ruth-haley-barton\/id1214483830\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">SUBSCRIBE ON APPLE PODCASTS<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You can also access podcast on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.stitcher.com\/podcast\/ruth-haley-barton\/strengthening-the-soul-of-your-leadership?refid=stpr\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Stitcher<\/a>\u00a0and <a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/41tz8kmZTi7wyYakvWUKZz\">Spotify<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><iframe title=\"S23 Ep 4 | The Heart Center: Managing Our Relationship with Connection and Disconnection\" allowtransparency=\"true\" height=\"150\" width=\"100%\" style=\"border: none; min-width: min(100%, 430px);height:150px;\" scrolling=\"no\" data-name=\"pb-iframe-player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.podbean.com\/player-v2\/?i=6ha7c-1624e4a-pb&#038;from=pb6admin&#038;share=1&#038;download=1&#038;rtl=0&#038;fonts=Arial&#038;skin=1&#038;font-color=&#038;logo_link=episode_page&#038;btn-skin=7\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"button outline\" href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/strengthening-the-soul-of-your-leadership-podcast\/season-twenty-three\/\">Listen to other episodes from Season 23<\/a> <a class=\"button-secondary outline\" href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/strengthening-the-soul-of-your-leadership-podcast\/\">Access past podcast seasons<\/a><\/p>\n<hr style=\"clear: both;\" \/>\n<p><strong>Helpful Enneagram Resources:<br \/>\n<\/strong>We are diving straight into the deep end of the enneagram this season. If you need some introductory resources to the Enneagram, we highly recommend the following:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3wB0sOu\">Self to Lose, Self to Find<\/a> by Marilyn Vancil<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3K1yiiP\">The Road Back To You<\/a> by Suzanne Stabile and Ian Cron<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3UX8Cdw\">The Story of You<\/a> by Ian Cron<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/3wIwacD\">The Enneagram for Black Liberation<\/a> by Chichi Agorom<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4aiA61z\">The Enneagram A Christian Perspective<\/a> by Richard Rohr<\/p>\n<p>Join our <a href=\"http:\/\/patreon.com\/transformingcenter\">Patreon Book Club<\/a> this summer! Patrons at all levels will have the opportunity to read and discuss Ashlee Eiland\u2019s newest book, <a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4dXiStK\">Say Good: Speaking Across Hot Topics, Complex Relationships, and Tense Situations<\/a>. We will meet twice over Zoom, once in July and once in August (with special guest, author Ashlee Eiland! ), to dialogue about the book and our own experiences speaking across difficult topics and conversations. Visit our<a href=\"http:\/\/patreon.com\/transformingcenter\"> Patreon page <\/a>for more information and to sign up today!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Music Credit:<br \/>\n<\/strong>Kingdom Come by Aaron Niequist<br \/>\nNo Matter What from <em>Music in Solitude<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Support the podcast! <strong>This season patrons will receive weekly bonus episodes that will help take these conversations deeper. We have journal prompts for each of the 9 numbers, guidance from Erin on how to determine your instinct or subtype, and more! <\/strong>Become a patron today by visiting <a href=\"https:\/\/patreon.com\/transformingcenter\">our Patreon page<\/a>!<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>The <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/\"><strong>Transforming Center<\/strong><\/a><strong> exists to create space for God to strengthen leaders and transform communities. You are invited to join our next <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/tc\"><strong><em>Transforming Community<\/em><\/strong><\/a><strong>:\u00ae A Two-year Spiritual Formation Experience for Leaders.<\/strong>\u00a0 Delivered in nine quarterly retreats, this practice-based learning opportunity is grounded in the conviction that the best thing you bring to leadership is your own transforming self! Learn more and apply <a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/transforming-community\/\">HERE<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"copywrite\">*this post contains affiliate links<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s time for the heart center numbers! Ruth and Erin will discuss the 2s, 3s, and 4s of this triad and their special relationship to connection and disconnection. 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