{"id":18326,"date":"2024-02-28T12:58:39","date_gmt":"2024-02-28T18:58:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/?p=18326"},"modified":"2024-02-28T12:58:39","modified_gmt":"2024-02-28T18:58:39","slug":"season-22-episode-2-compassion-and-curiosity-attuning-to-different-parts-of-our-suffering","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/2024\/02\/season-22-episode-2-compassion-and-curiosity-attuning-to-different-parts-of-our-suffering\/","title":{"rendered":"Season 22: Episode 2 | Compassion and Curiosity: Attuning to Different Parts of our Suffering"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In this episode, Ruth and Curt dive all the way into the deep end as they discuss attachment, attunement, and internal family systems. The pair also tackle the importance of embodiment in this healing work of suffering and durable hope. Curt also has some thoughtful questions for Ruth about the role suffering has played in her life and leadership. Over on Patreon, Curt introduces an exercise that combines the concept of internal family systems with a breathing practice.<\/p>\n<p>This season, psychiatrist, speaker, and author Dr. Curt Thompson joins us to discuss suffering and how it is the place where durable and true hope is formed. We will be working through the ideas in his new book, <em>The Deepest Place: Suffering and the Formation of Hope.<\/em><\/p>\n<hr style=\"clear: both;\" \/>\n<p><a class=\"button\" href=\"https:\/\/itunes.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/strengthening-soul-your-leadership-ruth-haley-barton\/id1214483830\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">SUBSCRIBE ON APPLE PODCASTS<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You can also access podcast on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.stitcher.com\/podcast\/ruth-haley-barton\/strengthening-the-soul-of-your-leadership?refid=stpr\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Stitcher<\/a>\u00a0and <a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/41tz8kmZTi7wyYakvWUKZz\">Spotify<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><iframe title=\"S22 Ep 2 | Compassion and Curiosity: Attuning to Different Parts of our Suffering\" allowtransparency=\"true\" height=\"150\" width=\"100%\" style=\"border: none; min-width: min(100%, 430px);height:150px;\" scrolling=\"no\" data-name=\"pb-iframe-player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.podbean.com\/player-v2\/?i=3ndgh-158b7f4-pb&#038;from=pb6admin&#038;share=1&#038;download=1&#038;rtl=0&#038;fonts=Arial&#038;skin=1&#038;font-color=&#038;logo_link=episode_page&#038;btn-skin=7\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"button outline\" href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/strengthening-the-soul-of-your-leadership-podcast\/season-twenty-two\/\">Listen to other episodes from Season 22<\/a> <a class=\"button-secondary outline\" href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/strengthening-the-soul-of-your-leadership-podcast\/\">Access past podcast seasons<\/a><\/p>\n<hr style=\"clear: both;\" \/>\n<p><strong>Mentioned in the episode:<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/amzn.to\/4b2Sa1g\"><em>The Deepest Place: Suffering and the Formation of Hope<\/em><\/a><em>\u00a0 <\/em>by Curt Thompson<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/The-Soul-of-Shame-Curt-Thompson-audiobook\/dp\/B076KWC41T\/ref=sr_1_3?crid=WJL8LVPG8RZZ&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.sRu7YdHMsj64vUfXB7kMIL2caVEi9n7G31Z1jP0u4MMT9v3_GeNH_w3CZyJu4Z3HcEGWaRdC0pzl3zyhEpwJzfrnvsJawIPPqfLxaGRXWoXUWm1maPz0sXecYWDgC_fSXG6abMVsCZHcvyEJwS7b6dYmr1Tac4PZWNu8Fz31KgvtgQFOJMfiAuS2rLMBXBr3qPtpiGZ6AdAMQQ0n9XkEideX-e4jf6-O-ce1UrgDtlc.lB4ba6TGRmSQhryYwJ99G7EUm-9ryJs3_f-8GEAm76Y&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=curt+thompson+books&amp;qid=1708015049&amp;sprefix=Curt+Thompson%2Caps%2C157&amp;sr=8-3\"><em>The Soul of Shame: Retelling the Stories We Believe about Ourselves<\/em><\/a> by Curt Thompson<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Anatomy-of-Soul-Curt-Thompson-MD-audiobook\/dp\/B01CONN926\/ref=sr_1_4?crid=WJL8LVPG8RZZ&amp;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.sRu7YdHMsj64vUfXB7kMIL2caVEi9n7G31Z1jP0u4MMT9v3_GeNH_w3CZyJu4Z3HcEGWaRdC0pzl3zyhEpwJzfrnvsJawIPPqfLxaGRXWoXUWm1maPz0sXecYWDgC_fSXG6abMVsCZHcvyEJwS7b6dYmr1Tac4PZWNu8Fz31KgvtgQFOJMfiAuS2rLMBXBr3qPtpiGZ6AdAMQQ0n9XkEideX-e4jf6-O-ce1UrgDtlc.lB4ba6TGRmSQhryYwJ99G7EUm-9ryJs3_f-8GEAm76Y&amp;dib_tag=se&amp;keywords=curt+thompson+books&amp;qid=1708015049&amp;sprefix=Curt+Thompson%2Caps%2C157&amp;sr=8-4\"><em>Anatomy of the Soul<\/em><\/a> by Curt Thompson<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/strengthening-the-soul-of-your-leadership-podcast\/\">Season 16 Transforming Leadership:Managing Anxiety Within our Communities<\/a> (Systems Theory Season of Strengthening the Soul of Your Leadership.<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Boundaries-Your-Soul-Overwhelming-Thoughts\/dp\/1400201616\"><em>Boundaries for Your Soul<\/em><\/a> by Alison Cook and Kimberly Miller<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>We are now accepting applications for Transforming Community 20! Use the code Podcast20 to receive $50 off your application fee. Learn more and apply <a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/transforming-community\/\">HERE<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>This season will not follow the lectionary readings as closely as past seasons. Scripture for Lent 2024 can be found <a href=\"https:\/\/lectionary.library.vanderbilt.edu\/lections.php?year=B&amp;season=Lent\">HERE.<\/a> A digital version of our reflections for Lent resource, <a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.christianbook.com\/lent-reflections-cycle-pdf-personal-use\/pd\/34214DF?event=ESRCG\">Lent A Season of Returning <\/a>is available for purchase in our bookstore.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Music Credit:<br \/>\n<\/strong>Kingdom Come by Aaron Niequist<br \/>\nBreathe (Longing for You) from <em>Lent Music in Solitude<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Support the podcast! <strong>This season patrons will receive weekly bonus episodes entitled \u201cThe Work,\u201d where Curt and Ruth will discuss and provide practical and applicable practices that open us up to God\u2019s presence in our suffering so that durable hope can be formed. <\/strong>Become a patron today by visiting <a href=\"https:\/\/patreon.com\/transformingcenter\">our Patreon page<\/a>!<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>The <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/\"><strong>Transforming Center<\/strong><\/a><strong> exists to create space for God to strengthen leaders and transform communities. 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