{"id":15870,"date":"2022-06-06T00:01:06","date_gmt":"2022-06-06T05:01:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/?p=15870"},"modified":"2022-05-27T08:57:47","modified_gmt":"2022-05-27T13:57:47","slug":"season-16-episode-6-second-order-change-recognizing-and-dissolving-stuck-patterns","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/2022\/06\/season-16-episode-6-second-order-change-recognizing-and-dissolving-stuck-patterns\/","title":{"rendered":"Season 16: Episode 6 | Second Order Change: Recognizing and Dissolving Stuck Patterns"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes our greatest anxieties can surround areas of stuckness, places where we know what we are doing isn\u2019t working, but we can\u2019t seem to find our way out. This week, Ruth and Steve will discuss second order change and how we can recognize and dissolve our stuck patterns. How does paying attention to process over content help us with this? And how can changing our own behaviors actually change the behaviors of others? Find out all this and more in this episode.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><a class=\"button\" href=\"https:\/\/itunes.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/strengthening-soul-your-leadership-ruth-haley-barton\/id1214483830\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">SUBSCRIBE ON APPLE PODCASTS<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You can also access podcast on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.stitcher.com\/podcast\/ruth-haley-barton\/strengthening-the-soul-of-your-leadership?refid=stpr\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Stitcher<\/a>\u00a0and <a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/41tz8kmZTi7wyYakvWUKZz\">Spotify<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Season 16: Episode 6 | Second Order Change: Recognizing and Dissolving Stuck Patterns\" allowtransparency=\"true\" height=\"150\" width=\"100%\" style=\"border: none; min-width: min(100%, 430px);\" scrolling=\"no\" data-name=\"pb-iframe-player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.podbean.com\/player-v2\/?i=ee4y9-1233afb-pb&#038;from=pb6admin&#038;share=1&#038;download=1&#038;rtl=0&#038;fonts=Arial&#038;skin=1&#038;font-color=&#038;logo_link=episode_page&#038;btn-skin=7\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"button outline\" href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/strengthening-the-soul-of-your-leadership-podcast\/season-sixteen\/\">Listen to other episodes from Season 16<\/a> <a class=\"button-secondary outline\" href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/strengthening-the-soul-of-your-leadership-podcast\/\">Access past podcast seasons<\/a><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>Helpful to this episode:<\/strong><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.christianbook.com\/everything-terrible-insecurities-interrupt-anxiety-finally\/9780316492539\/pd\/492544?event=ESRCG\">Everything Isn\u2019t Terrible<\/a> by Dr. Kathleen Smith<\/p>\n<p><strong>Steve Cuss Resources:<\/strong><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.stevecusswords.com\/\">Steve\u2019s website<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.christianbook.com\/managing-leadership-anxiety-steve-cuss\/9781400210886\/pd\/210886?event=ESRCG\">Managing Leadership Anxiety, Yours and Theirs<\/a> by Steve Cuss<\/p>\n<p><strong>General Resources for Systems Theory:<\/strong><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/2020\/04\/season-9-episode-6-spiritual-transformation-and-family-systems-part-1\/\">Season 9 Episode 6 of the Strengthening the Soul of Your Leadership Podcast<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/2020\/04\/season-9-episode-7-spiritual-transformation-and-family-systems-part-2\/\">Season 9 Episode 7 of the Strengthening the Soul of Your Leadership Podcast<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Family-Systems-Congregational-Life-Ministry-ebook\/dp\/B07N988KJB\/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&amp;keywords=Robert+creech&amp;qid=1587581723&amp;s=books&amp;sr=1-1\">Family Systems and Congregational Life: A Map for Ministry <\/a>by R. Robert Creech<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/lmpeacecenter.org\/\">Lombard Mennonite Peace Center<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Generation-Process-Synagogue-Guilford-Therapy\/dp\/1609182367\/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=generation+to+generation+family+process+in+church+and+synagogue&amp;qid=1651928419&amp;s=books&amp;sprefix=generation+to+generation%2Cstripbooks%2C86&amp;sr=1-1\">Generation to Generation: Family Process in Church and Synagogue<\/a> by Edwin H. Friedman<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Extraordinary-Relationships-Thinking-About-Interactions\/dp\/0470581093\">Extraordinary Relationships: A new Way of Thinking about Human Interactions<\/a> by Roberta M Gilbert<\/p>\n<p><strong>Music Credit:<\/strong><br \/>\nKingdom Come by Aaron Niequist<\/p>\n<p>Support the podcast! This season, patrons will receive exclusive bonus content that includes conversations with Ruth and Steve that delve into episode topics a little deeper. <strong>This week we will offer a conversation about universal sources of anxiety.<\/strong> Become a patron today by visiting <a href=\"https:\/\/patreon.com\/transformingcenter\">our Patreon page<\/a>!<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>The <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/\"><strong>Transforming Center<\/strong><\/a><strong> exists to create space for God to strengthen leaders and transform communities. You are invited to join our next <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/tc\"><strong><em>Transforming Community<\/em><\/strong><\/a><strong>:\u00ae A Two-year Spiritual Formation Experience for Leaders.<\/strong>\u00a0 Delivered in nine quarterly retreats, this practice-based learning opportunity is grounded in the conviction that the best thing you bring to leadership is your own transforming self!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes our greatest anxieties can surround areas of stuckness, places where we know what we are doing isn\u2019t working, but we can\u2019t seem to find our way out. 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