{"id":15813,"date":"2022-05-16T00:01:08","date_gmt":"2022-05-16T05:01:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/?p=15813"},"modified":"2022-05-10T12:17:17","modified_gmt":"2022-05-10T17:17:17","slug":"season-16-episode-3-the-sins-of-the-fathers-and-mothers-how-family-of-origin-impacts-our-leadership","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/2022\/05\/season-16-episode-3-the-sins-of-the-fathers-and-mothers-how-family-of-origin-impacts-our-leadership\/","title":{"rendered":"Season 16: Episode 3 | The Sins of the Fathers (and Mothers): How Family of Origin Impacts Our Leadership"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This week, Ruth and Steve delve into the topic of family of origin and its impact on leadership. Why do we need to do the messy work of untangling our childhood issues? How do we carry childhood wounds into our leadership? How can genograms help us do this work? Ruth and Steve share their thoughts on these questions and more in today\u2019s episode.<\/p>\n<p>This week\u2019s practice invites you to sit with the following questions: What\u2019s a family trait that was an asset to you? What is a family trait that was a liability?\u00a0 We encourage you to explore genograms, as well.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><a class=\"button\" href=\"https:\/\/itunes.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/strengthening-soul-your-leadership-ruth-haley-barton\/id1214483830\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">SUBSCRIBE ON APPLE PODCASTS<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You can also access podcast on\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.stitcher.com\/podcast\/ruth-haley-barton\/strengthening-the-soul-of-your-leadership?refid=stpr\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Stitcher<\/a>\u00a0and <a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/41tz8kmZTi7wyYakvWUKZz\">Spotify<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Season 16: Episode 3 | The Sins of the Fathers (and Mothers): How Family of Origin Impacts Our Leadership\" allowtransparency=\"true\" height=\"150\" width=\"100%\" style=\"border: none; min-width: min(100%, 430px);\" scrolling=\"no\" data-name=\"pb-iframe-player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.podbean.com\/player-v2\/?i=x77wz-122222b-pb&#038;from=pb6admin&#038;share=1&#038;download=1&#038;rtl=0&#038;fonts=Arial&#038;skin=1&#038;font-color=&#038;logo_link=episode_page&#038;btn-skin=7\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"button outline\" href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/strengthening-the-soul-of-your-leadership-podcast\/season-sixteen\/\">Listen to other episodes from Season 16<\/a> <a class=\"button-secondary outline\" href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/strengthening-the-soul-of-your-leadership-podcast\/\">Access past podcast seasons<\/a><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>Steve Cuss Resources:<\/strong><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.stevecusswords.com\/\">Steve\u2019s website<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.christianbook.com\/managing-leadership-anxiety-steve-cuss\/9781400210886\/pd\/210886?event=ESRCG\">Managing Leadership Anxiety, Yours and Theirs<\/a> by Steve Cuss<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.kickstarter.com\/projects\/217225054\/the-calm-aware-present-journal\/\">Calm, Aware, Present Journal kickstarter campaign<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>General Resources for Systems Theory:<\/strong><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/2020\/04\/season-9-episode-6-spiritual-transformation-and-family-systems-part-1\/\">Season 9 Episode 6 of the Strengthening the Soul of Your Leadership Podcast<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/2020\/04\/season-9-episode-7-spiritual-transformation-and-family-systems-part-2\/\">Season 9 Episode 7 of the Strengthening the Soul of Your Leadership Podcast<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Family-Systems-Congregational-Life-Ministry-ebook\/dp\/B07N988KJB\/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&amp;keywords=Robert+creech&amp;qid=1587581723&amp;s=books&amp;sr=1-1\">Family Systems and Congregational Life: A Map for Ministry <\/a>by R. Robert Creech<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/lmpeacecenter.org\/\">Lombard Mennonite Peace Center<\/a><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Generation-Process-Synagogue-Guilford-Therapy\/dp\/1609182367\/ref=sr_1_1?keywords=generation+to+generation+family+process+in+church+and+synagogue&amp;qid=1651928419&amp;s=books&amp;sprefix=generation+to+generation%2Cstripbooks%2C86&amp;sr=1-1\">Generation to Generation: Family Process in Church and Synagogue<\/a> by Edwin H. Friedman<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Extraordinary-Relationships-Thinking-About-Interactions\/dp\/0470581093\">Extraordinary Relationships: A new Way of Thinking about Human Interactions<\/a> by Roberta M Gilbert<\/p>\n<p><strong>Music Credit:<\/strong><br \/>\nKingdom Come by Aaron Niequist<\/p>\n<p>Support the podcast! This season, patrons will receive exclusive bonus content that includes conversations with Ruth and Steve that delve into episode topics a little deeper. <strong><em>This week we will be sharing a more personal conversation with Ruth and Steve about parenting and systems theory. <\/em><\/strong>Become a patron today by visiting <a href=\"https:\/\/patreon.com\/transformingcenter\">our Patreon page<\/a>!<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>The <\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/\"><strong>Transforming Center<\/strong><\/a><strong> exists to create space for God to strengthen leaders and transform communities. 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