{"id":12244,"date":"2020-03-10T21:55:23","date_gmt":"2020-03-11T02:55:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/?p=12244"},"modified":"2020-04-10T10:43:29","modified_gmt":"2020-04-10T15:43:29","slug":"season-9-episode-3-the-struggle-to-give-our-deaths-away","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/2020\/03\/season-9-episode-3-the-struggle-to-give-our-deaths-away\/","title":{"rendered":"Season 9: Episode 3 | The Struggle to Give our Deaths Away"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The third-part of Ruth&#8217;s conversation with author Fr.\u00a0Ronald Rolheiser is a thought provoking discussion of \u00a0<span class=\"\">the<\/span>\u00a0third stage of discipleship \u2013<span class=\"\">\u00a0giving our deaths away<\/span><em>.<\/em> How can we give something deep in our passivity like Jesus did in his passion? A fascinating dialogue about dying and the spiritual journey.\u00a0\u00a0Ruth shares with us what her mother taught her in her death.<\/p>\n<p>This conversation is drawn from his profound and thought-provoking book, <span class=\"\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/dp\/080413944X\/ref=rdr_ext_tmb\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Sacred Fire: A Vision for a Deeper Human and Christian Maturity<\/em><\/a>.\u00a0<\/span>We pray these three episodes will serve you well as you begin your Lenten journey.<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"button\" href=\"https:\/\/itunes.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/strengthening-soul-your-leadership-ruth-haley-barton\/id1214483830\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">SUBSCRIBE ON ITUNES<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You can also access podcast on <a href=\"https:\/\/play.google.com\/music\/m\/Iugwwuq5kmhfft5aadsbvtksage?t=Strengthening_the_Soul_of_Your_Leadership_with_Ruth_Haley_Barton\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Google Play<\/a> or <a href=\"https:\/\/www.stitcher.com\/podcast\/ruth-haley-barton\/strengthening-the-soul-of-your-leadership?refid=stpr\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Stitcher<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" style=\"border: none;\" title=\"Season 9: Episode 3 | The Struggle to Give Our Death Away with Ron Rolheiser \" src=\"https:\/\/www.podbean.com\/media\/player\/x3xyy-d5e88d?from=yiiadmin&amp;download=1&amp;version=1&amp;skin=1&amp;btn-skin=107&amp;auto=0&amp;share=1&amp;fonts=Helvetica&amp;download=1&amp;rtl=0&amp;pbad=1\" width=\"100%\" height=\"122\" scrolling=\"no\" data-name=\"pb-iframe-player\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><a class=\"button\" href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/strengthening-the-soul-of-your-leadership-podcast\/season-nine\/\">Listen to other episodes from Season 9<\/a> <a class=\"button-secondary\" href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/strengthening-the-soul-of-your-leadership-podcast\/\">Access past podcast seasons<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Mentioned in this podcast:<br \/>\n<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Holy-Longing-Search-Christian-Spirituality\/dp\/038549419X\/ref=pd_sbs_14_1\/143-8345556-4200521?_encoding=UTF8&amp;pd_rd_i=038549419X&amp;pd_rd_r=87729302-12e3-4410-bcd6-26264d0a69b7&amp;pd_rd_w=RMld0&amp;pd_rd_wg=KIMu9&amp;pf_rd_p=7cd8f929-4345-4bf2-a554-7d7588b3dd5f&amp;pf_rd_r=MQNF9QBFDVY0156DQCKP&amp;psc=1&amp;refRID=MQNF9QBFDVY0156DQCKP\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>The Holy Longing: The Search for a Christian Spirituality <\/em><\/a>Ronald Rolheiser<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/dp\/080413944X\/ref=rdr_ext_tmb\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em>Sacred Fire: A Vision for a Deeper Human and Christian Maturity <\/em><\/a>Ronald Rolheiser<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/lent-gift\/\"><em>Lent: A Season of Returning<\/em><\/a>\u00a0Ruth Haley Barton<\/p>\n<p><strong>Exploring Further:<\/strong><b><br \/>\n<\/b><a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/transforming-community\/\"><em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Transforming Community<\/span><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.ruthhaleybarton.com\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ruth Haley Barton<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Become a patron:<\/strong> <span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Join a growing movement of transforming leaders. We\u2019ve received fantastic feedback about the podcast, and we would like to create even more episodes. We need you! <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/patron\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Become a patron during Lent and receive our <em>Lent: A Season of Returning<\/em><\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Music Credit:<br \/>\n<\/strong><b><\/b><em>New Way to Live<\/em> written by Joel Hanson. <em>I am New<\/em> written by Joel Hanson and Jason Gray.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/patron\/\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-12113 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/transformingcenter.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/ad-digital-lent-reflections-gift-1024x436.png\" alt=\"Join us for Lent: Receive a free resource when you give a gift.\" width=\"1024\" height=\"436\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The third-part of Ruth&#8217;s conversation with author Fr.\u00a0Ronald Rolheiser is a thought provoking discussion of \u00a0the\u00a0third stage of discipleship \u2013\u00a0giving our deaths away. 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